SERIOUSLY? Did you even bother to read my post:
Your issue, on the other hand, is simply that you got screwed by an unscrupulous person. When did this sale go down? I'm hoping your answer is "some time before June 12th", because if it is after that date, then you have only yourself to blame. The Activation Lock link provided on that date has very specific instructions on how to protect yourself from getting a device that has been Activation Locked:
How do I check for Activation Lock before purchasing a used device?
When purchasing an iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch from someone other than Apple or an authorized Apple reseller, it is up to you to ensure that the device has been erased and is no longer linked to the previous owner’s account.
You can check the current Activation Lock status of a device by visiting icloud.com/activationlock from any Mac or PC.
Or you can follow the steps below to make sure that you can use the device you purchase:
- Turn the device on and slide to unlock.
- If the passcode lock screen or the Home screen appears, the device hasn't been erased. Ask the seller to completely erase the device by going to Settings > General > Reset > Erase All Content and Settings. Don't take ownership of any used iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch until it's been erased.
- Begin the device setup process.
- After choosing a language, choosing a country, and connecting to a network, the device will begin activation. If you're asked for the previous owner’s Apple ID and password, the device is still linked to their account. Hand the device back to the seller and ask them to enter their password. If the previous owner isn't present, they can remove the device from their account by signing in to icloud.com/find. Don't take ownership of any used iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch until it has been removed from the previous owner’s account.
You will know that a device is ready for you to use when you're asked to “Set up your iPhone," “Set up your iPad," or “Set up your iPod” during the device setup process.
Sorry you got screwed by the person you sold the device to. [But, again, in many of the cases where a 3rd party seller is involved, there is likely a stolen phone involved as well. Not saying that the person selling the device knows it is stolen. It's kind of like money-laundering. It just gets passed through the various mechanisms, and by the time you get the device, the person who sold it to you can't help you because the person who sold it to them can't help them, etc., etc., etc.] this last part in brackets was simply to emphasize that the reason people keep talking about stolen phones is because most of the posts we get on this topic do involve 3rd party purchases, and because the line of custody is unknown, it is likely that a stolen phone got in there at some point.
I am fully aware that YOU sold the phone to HER, then SHE returned it to you with her iCloud Activation Lock turned on. I was simply inquiring as to whether this event took place before or after June 12th. It doesn't matter what the circumstances are, if you are purchasing/refunding and retrieving, getting a phone free, the point is: If you are receiving an iPhone that has not been in your control (even for half a day), it's a good idea to make sure the Activation Lock is not on.....
Something to keep in mind in future if you sell an i-Device to a person who then wants to return it to you for their money back because they are having some issue with it. To protect yourself, do not give anybody any money until you have determined the device is fully functional (this includes NO Activation Lock).
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