I forgot my security quastion and i forgot the reset email

If you can't remember what you set your rescue email address to then you have need to contact Support in your country to get the questions reset : Apple ID: Contacting Apple for help with Apple ID account security

When they've been reset you can then use the steps on this page to view and/or change your rescue email address for potential future use : Manage your Apple ID primary, rescue, alternate, and notification email addresses

Yep, you're going to have to contact Apple support. No one on the discussion board will not be able to help you ,