How to change the address the security reset goes to
Is there a way to add an email address to send security questions to? I tried to send a reset form, however, the email address was my dad's.
You won't be able to change the address until you can answer your questions, if you can't remember your answers and don't have access to your current rescue email address then you will have to contact Support in your country to get the questions reset.
Contacting Apple about account security : http://support.apple.com/kb/HT5699
When they've been reset you can then use the steps on this page to change your rescue email address for potential future use : http://support.apple.com/kb/HT5620