ican not reset my Apple id password by email

If you set up a rescue e-mail address, check there. You may need to generate the reset e-mail again as the link only has a 3 hour time-to-live.

If no rescue e-mail address, you will need to call apple support account security departmemt.

Contact Apple Support to have them reset your Security Questions:

ACCOUNT SECURITY CONTACT NUMBERS

Once you get all sorted, check to make sure you actually do have a Rescue email address (which is not the same as an Alternate email address). Or you might want to look into 2-step Verification:

TWO STEP VERIFICATION

Cheers,

GB