In Mail, how to show misspellings without automatically correcting them?
When writing a new e-mail in Mail, one can set spell-checking either to ask about corrections after one has finished the message and clicks 'Send', or to show each misspelt word and offer a correction as one types. The latter saves a great deal of time, but it has a major disadvantage: if one wants a particular unorthodox spelling but misses that a suggestion has appeared and continues to type, the correction goes in without one's noticing it. In many applications (e.g. Pages, Word, etc.) a misspelling is flagged up by a red underscore, but if one continues typing it is one's own idiosyncratic spelling that goes in. Is there any way of achieving this in Mail?
Mac mini, OS X Mountain Lion (10.8.5)