Hi--
Getting my hands on these bounces - I know someone
told me that it said something about "mailer daemon"
returning the mail.
Yeah, the "mailer daemon" is the mail server, either at our friends' ISP or at .Mac, so that's why it's mentioned.
Will post headers as I collect them, am hoping they
will provide some info.
Sure, just make sure you strip out any identifying information, particularly names and email addresses.
one
sender in particular received three bounces in a row
over the course of a week or so after we had
successfully exchanged a few emails, which truly
makes no sense to me.
Unfortunately, the war against spam is always escalating, so what works today may or may not work tomorrow. So I'm sure Apple, like every other ISP is constantly adjusting their filters.
An example: I've been using a script for over a year and a half to send myself an email at 3:15 AM with some info from the logs on one of my computers. Sometimes there's nothing in the log, so I just get an empty email. But just in the last couple of weeks, when there's nothing from the log in the email, I don't receive the email at all. I check my sending logs and they're accepted by the .Mac servers, but they must get filtered out silently.
charlie