Q: My 4S Bluetooth stopped pairing to my Ford Explorer after i updated to ios 8.0.2

I have a 4S, it has been able to talk to my ford explorer no problem until i updated to ios 8.0.2

Now when i pair it, i get "in Privacy" on my ford sync screen and a timer is running. This is as if i was in a private call on my phone ( ie not using the car speakers)

I cannot end the call or change it at all.

The only way to stop the " in privacy" is to turn off bluetooth on my phone and use it normally.

Safety is a big concern for me as i am driving for example: tomorrow, from houston to dallas and back. This is not the quality of software i expect from a premium device.