Q: my apple id is desabled how can i recover that

First try resetting the the password:

How do I change or recover a forgotten Apple ID Password?

If you've forgotten your Apple ID Password or want to change it, go to My Apple ID and follow the instructions. SeeChanging your Apple ID password if you'd like more information.

If that does not work you have to contact iTunes:

http://www.apple.com/support/itunes/contact/