Situation: My wife and I are trying to do family sharing with two apple ID's. Mine as the organizer, wife as member. Both set to "share my purchases". Prior to this, we only had one apple ID, so the wife's is new.
My setup: iMac, iPad Air 2, iPhone 6. Wife: macbook air, iPad 2, iPhone 5.
Sharing is working on all devices except music and movies/TV shows on the iPad 2. Shared calendar and reminders are working on the iPad 2.
Have tried all the tricks in the articles, i.e. all settings seem to be correct. Have downloaded a free app. Have signed out and back in. Reset the iPad as new and started over. Nothing working.