I am setting up an Ipad for my child and downloading apps with Ask to Buy turned on. As the parent, I am not receiving notices/requests on my device

I have an ipad mini 2 with ios 8 and and iphone 5s with ios8

I am setting up the ipad for my child and the Ask to Buy feature is on in family sharing.

I am trying to download apps from the app store and it pops up the notification that I need to Ask to Buy and the request is being sent.

The request should be coming to my "parent" device, which happens to be my iphone correct ? I'm not seeing any sort of requests.

According to the posts I've read a request is only sent once.