hi william.
thanks. correct me if i am missing something or in error here.
the issue i am having is that Reminders has the really awesome location awareness thingamajig which is uber helpful. it also has the ability to set a specific day and at a specific time. the only thing it does not appear to let me do - for some reason - is to set a specific day /without/ a specific time. also i don't think it lets me set an alert which calendar events obviously do.
the other pretty dumb thing i can see about reminders is that there does not appear to be a way to let me have notifications show me reminders for THAT DAY and the NEXT DAY or NEXT WEEK /first/ and instead it shows me past due events which i really don't want to see at the front (i really, really, really don't want to see old reminders before i see reminders for the next couple of days...). this is a real pain and prevents me from organizing my reminders.
also, the problem i am having is that making anything categorically one thing or another is very difficult and i tend to use my paper calendar in all sorts of ways. i use it to set "hard" appointments but i also use it to set "soft" reminders. sometimes these get moved to the next page and sometimes i take notes on older dates where there is space to write.
so basically what i am finding is that notifications is pretty good but not very good for showing me reminders. reminders is pretty good at being location aware. notifications is /pretty/ good at helping me get my schedule together. so i am trying to find something that works better for me.
and right now i use calendar in a kind of pavlov's monkey sort of way where i set an alert for half and hour and an hour in advance and when the phone dings i look down to see what i have to do, then i get organized to go somewhere - and when it dings a second time i get in my truck and i go.
right now nothing on the mac helps me get my schedule together the way i need to.
i currently use other apps to organize important chunks or data or for long lists of information but right now i don't see anything that would replace reminders - and i really don't see a need to move from reminders. all i really need is a calendar that will let me integrate these better.