Well, I see it; in my iBookG4 running 10.4.8; and you may have to click on
the selection button (where I referred to the Show: [ - - ] selection box.)
If you are seeing a different screen at that point, you did not select AirPort.
The screens are a little different between OSX 10.4.8 and 10.3.9, but both
do show the specific information in the same page as I specified. You may
be looking at the Show: [ Network Status ] window; so click on the box
where Network Status appears and in there you will see alternatives, and
one is AirPort. If another screen appears in there, (a button bar appears,
in the AirPort window if you chose to arrive there as I suggest) you can
click on the far left AirPort button to see the dialog box with the AirPort
ID number of your configuration (even if your computer is attached to
Ethernet with AirPort in it turned Off) and in the bottom of that screen
the checkbox you can toggle says, "Show AirPort Status in Menubar."
Same in OSX 10.3.9; close enough for either system user to find it there.
The only other thing is in reference to another item in that show:
box, where you have to be certain your Network Port Configurations
include AirPort, Ethernet, and whatever else you would use.
Sometimes by not checking AirPort in there, you won't see
AirPort in the Show: [ AirPort ] box; it won't be in the choices.