Find my friends app. Can I use it for my daughter if we share the same Apple id.

Yes

For more info, see: Find My Friends: Frequently asked questions - Apple Support

No. You need different Apple IDs.

you canyes

No. stevejobsfan0123 is right - from Find My Friends: Frequently asked questions - Apple Support mentioned above in the post saying yes, it clearly says:

Can I use Find My Friends on more than one device at a time?

Yes. You can sign in to Find My Friends and use it from any iOS device you own. However, only ☞ one device can transmit your location ☜ to your followers.

KEYWORDs = "You" and "Your"

If she is conducting activity as YOU as you indicate, there is your answer.

Get her her own AppleID (I have a 4 year old granddaughter that can operate an iPad with impunity!) - Family Share to control her rights

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I stand corrected then.

Also see: How to Stop Sharing an Apple ID.

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