Well at least i got this far. Clicking on the phone ( Mikes Phone) did nothing, but clicking the phone icon did. Under File - Edit - View - Controls - Store - Help
there is Music Movies TV Shows ... | phone icon. Clicked that and the sync screen comes up.
Here is the first screen shot, and clicking on Mikes Phone does nothing. I can open up the drop down menu as in the next screen shot.
Here is the drop down menu opened, and I can click on the items within but couldnt sync. You can see the iphone icon above...
Clicking the phone icon opens up the familiar page, and I was able to sync again,. I did this wirelessly too.