I have disconnected my ipod and it still says okay to disconnect on it

Greetings franden,

If you are seeing the "Okay to disconnect" message on your iPod nano even after it has been disconnected from the computer, you should reset the iPod. See this article for reference -

About the Do not disconnect and OK to disconnect screens for iPod

To do the reset, follow the instructions in this article -

iPod nano (7th generation): Hardware troubleshooting - Apple Support

Specifically -

Reset iPod nano. First, make sure iPod nano is charged. Then press the Sleep/Wake button and the Home button for six seconds, until the Apple logo appears.

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Be well,

Brett L