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Can i not agree to delete an appt in ical in a shared calendar?

I share a calendar with my family. By mistake someone has deleted two appointments and I get a notification asking me to ok it.

Can I not ok it?

How do I find the time/day of the appts? The first notification shows time/day - but the second doesn't?