Good Morning xtina592,
I understand iTunes for Windows becomes unresponsive when you eject your iPod. Which iPod do you have? The resource below provides some steps to try to resolve this issue. I've highlighted the key information here for you. Click on the article for complete details.
iTunes: May become unresponsive when connecting iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support
https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT203356
In rare instances, iTunes may become unresponsive when connecting an iPhone, iPad or iPod touch to your computer. iTunes may become responsive again after you disconnect the device from the computer.
1. Install any available software updates for your computer.
For Windows: Refer to the documentation for your computer for instructions on using Windows Update to update your computer.
2. Update iTunes to the latest version.
For Windows: Use
Apple Software Update for Windows
or download iTunes from the
Apple website
.
3. Test with automatic syncing disabled.
For Windows: Click the Edit menu and choose Preferences. Click the Devices tab and place a check next to option to "Prevent iPods, iPhones and iPads from syncing automatically." Click OK.
Reconnect your device and test to see if the issue still occurs. If your device is recognized successfully, you may be able to isolate which type of data is causing the issue. Do this by deselecting all syncing options under each of the syncing tabs and then sync. After that, re-enable your sync options one at a time until the issue returns.
If the issue only occurs when syncing data from the Info tab is enabled (For example: Contact, Calendar, Mail account or Bookmark syncing), reset Sync History on Windows.
4. Check your device for podcasts. If there are any podcasts, manually delete all podcast episodes from the device by sliding your finger across the podcast episode's name and tapping Delete. Once all podcasts are removed from your device, reconnect it to the computer, open iTunes, and test.
5. If possible, test to see if connecting your device to a different computer with the latest version of iTunes installed resolves the issue.
6. Test with iTunes plug-ins removed.
- If any files are in this folder, move them to the Desktop temporarily.
- Open iTunes and test to see if the issue is resolved. If so, you may leave these iTunes plug-ins removed. If you wish to re-use these iTunes plug-ins, consult the vendor for the iTunes plug-ins to see if any updates are available.
I hope this information helps ....
- Judy