remote desktop

Hey there chutze,

It sounds like you just want to remove the Apple Remote Desktop application from your computers. This article should help you out:

Uninstall or disable Apple Remote Desktop

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All the very best,

Sterling

Hold on a second, Did you ask this question because you saw the remote desktop client update in your software update menu? If so, you don't need to worry. It's something built into your operating system. It does not give anyone access to your computer unless you have configured it to do so. You cannot uninstall the remote desktop client.

Mr. Sterling here is referring to instructions if you'd like to remove the actual administrator application Apple Remote Desktop. Which you have to pay for and probably don't have.