Thanks, Allen. Your answer does not address what I am asking. I'll try to be more specific.
An aftermarket Bluetooth receiver is plugged into an audio jack for the car stereo.
An aftermarket Bluetooth handsfree unit with a microphone, speaker, and on-button is attached to the sun visor.
The iPhone is paired with both of these devices.
No phone call is active and iTunes is playing music through the car stereo.
A phone call comes in.
I push the on button on the handsfree device and it answers the phone.
iTunes mutes and pauses the music.
Now the difficult part:
The caller hears me through the handsfree microphone.
I hear the caller though the car speakers.
This is what happens when you use factory-installed handsfree Bluetooth interface.
The aftermarket the handsfree device would need a connection from its microphone to Bluetooth audio-in on the iPhone.
At the same time the aftermarket Bluetooth receiver in the audio jack would need to connect to Bluetooth audio-out on the iPhone.
Would iOS 8 support this?
If the iOS cannot support these split Bluetooth audio-in and audio-out connections, then this would be the next best alternative:
A phone call comes in.
I push the on button on the handsfree device and it answers the phone.
iTunes mutes and pauses the music.
The caller hears me through the handsfree microphone.
I hear the caller though the handsfree speaker.
The handsfree speaker has significantly worse fidelity and lower volume than the car-stereo speakers.
When the call ends, iTunes resumes the music through the car speakers.
Would iOS 8 support this?