Q: How do I make my rescue email address primary

My primary email address is WAY out of date. 6 years or so.

I thought by adding another email address years ago that would help when I got my new address for my business. (my only email now)

But now I can't change my primary email address to the address that I set as the "Rescue"

I deleted it as the Rescue, but it appears that Apple still thinks its there. 

  I likely won't even get notifications of replies to this post if its under my apple id, since that will go to an old address I don't use any more.