In my case the iPhone didn't even appear in the Photos App. The solution was as follows:
* I backed up my iPhone in iTunes, then archived the backup (iTunes > Preferences > Devices ..)
* I Quit iTunes
* I went to the System Preferences > iCloud > Options > and turned all the various iCloud settings for Photos off
* I went to the System Preferences > iCloud > and turned the iCloud support for Photos off
* I went to the Library folder in Finder and located the nsurlsessiond folder via search
* I copied the folder to a backup folder, just in case
* I deleted the nsurlsessiond folder
* Optional: restart OSX (I didn't do this, but the instructions I followed recommended this)
* I opened Photos App on my Mac
* YAY - my iPhone now appears
It is based on another solution here for a slightly different sync issue: https://apple.stackexchange.com/questions/260062/epubs-from-ibooks-not-showing-u p-in-itunes-on-mac-os-x-sierra/291423#291423