How to get Windows 8.1 on Mid 2010 MBP?

The orientation seems to be stuck sideways on this picture, but this is where I am:

I Seem to be stuck on this screen? The underscore at the end is blinking still at this point however the DVD doesn't sound like its spinning. Thoughts? I held the power button to turn off, then started it back up and held the alt key, selected the windows disk and this pooped up. I clicked a random key and it's still sitting.

So for #1, I need to download this? Boot Camp Support Software 4.0.4033 even though I already have 5.1.4?

For #2, I went through that process above and it appears that Windows is running great now.

For #3, is this basically for whenever the Mac starts this designates which side it starts up with?

I tried running the DVD through Applications -> Utilities -> Bootcamp Assistant, however an error message popped up stating that Windows 8 is not compatible with this macbook. I know that others have been able to use Windows 8 and 8.1 on my particular model of mac but I don't know how to get it on here. Thoughts?

Is there no way to use the 8.1 disk I currently have to load the software on my Mac? Microsoft has already informed me they will not take back the software since I have opened it (even though I have not used it). I purchased it before I realized that my particular model doesn't actually fully support Windows 8. I have heard about being able to install Windows 7 and upgrade it to Windows 8, but I am stuck with the 8.1 DVD.

Correct me if this is wrong.

To do step two (partition the disk) I go to; Disk Utility -> Select the drive to partition -> (Once selected) Click the partition tab, then the "+" sign -> Give it a name and format.

To do step three (Install Windows); Restart Mac -> Should load Windows portion of driver automatically?

This is where I'm lost.

I partitioned my hard drive to be 70/30 (30 Windows). I used MS-DOT (FAT) for the partition. Below is what I did and what happened:

Last login: Sat Apr 18 21:26:59 on ttys000

Nicholass-MacBook-Pro:~ NickPoulos$ sudo gpt -vv -r show /dev/disk0

WARNING: Improper use of the sudo command could lead to data loss

or the deletion of important system files. Please double-check your

typing when using sudo. Type "man sudo" for more information.

To proceed, enter your password, or type Ctrl-C to abort.

Password:

gpt show: /dev/disk0: mediasize=250059350016; sectorsize=512; blocks=488397168

gpt show: /dev/disk0: Suspicious MBR at sector 0

gpt show: /dev/disk0: Pri GPT at sector 1

gpt show: /dev/disk0: Sec GPT at sector 488397167

start size index contents

0 1 MBR

1 1 Pri GPT header

2 32 Pri GPT table

34 6

40 409600 1 GPT part - C12A7328-F81F-11D2-BA4B-00A0C93EC93B

409640 349999200 2 GPT part - 48465300-0000-11AA-AA11-00306543ECAC

350408840 1269536 3 GPT part - 426F6F74-0000-11AA-AA11-00306543ECAC

351678376 88

351678464 136718336 4 GPT part - EBD0A0A2-B9E5-4433-87C0-68B6B72699C7

488396800 335

488397135 32 Sec GPT table

488397167 1 Sec GPT header

Nicholass-MacBook-Pro:~ NickPoulos$

This is what I did, rebooting now:

Last login: Sun Apr 19 15:28:13 on ttys000

Nicholass-MacBook-Pro:~ NickPoulos$ Sudo gdisk /dev/disk0

Password:

GPT fdisk (gdisk) version 1.0.0

Warning: Devices opened with shared lock will not have their

partition table automatically reloaded!

Partition table scan:

MBR: hybrid

BSD: not present

APM: not present

GPT: present

Found valid GPT with hybrid MBR; using GPT.

Command (? for help): P

Disk /dev/disk0: 488397168 sectors, 232.9 GiB

Logical sector size: 512 bytes

Disk identifier (GUID): 010777C6-1ED5-4DC4-886D-C4D5D2EFFFAC

Partition table holds up to 128 entries

First usable sector is 34, last usable sector is 488397134

Partitions will be aligned on 8-sector boundaries

Total free space is 429 sectors (214.5 KiB)

Number Start (sector) End (sector) Size Code Name

1 40 409639 200.0 MiB EF00 EFI System Partition

2 409640 350408839 166.9 GiB AF00 Macintosh HD

3 350408840 351678375 619.9 MiB AB00 Recovery HD

4 351678464 488396799 65.2 GiB 0700 WINDOWS

Command (? for help): R

Recovery/transformation command (? for help): H

WARNING! Hybrid MBRs are flaky and dangerous! If you decide not to use one,

just hit the Enter key at the below prompt and your MBR partition table will

be untouched.

Type from one to three GPT partition numbers, separated by spaces, to be

added to the hybrid MBR, in sequence: 2 3 4

Place EFI GPT (0xEE) partition first in MBR (good for GRUB)? (Y/N): Y

Creating entry for GPT partition #2 (MBR partition #2)

Enter an MBR hex code (default AF):

Set the bootable flag? (Y/N): N

Creating entry for GPT partition #3 (MBR partition #3)

Enter an MBR hex code (default AB):

Set the bootable flag? (Y/N): N

Creating entry for GPT partition #4 (MBR partition #4)

Enter an MBR hex code (default 07):

Set the bootable flag? (Y/N): Y

Recovery/transformation command (? for help): W

Final checks complete. About to write GPT data. THIS WILL OVERWRITE EXISTING

PARTITIONS!!

Do you want to proceed? (Y/N): Y

OK; writing new GUID partition table (GPT) to /dev/disk0.

Warning: Devices opened with shared lock will not have their

partition table automatically reloaded!

Warning: The kernel may continue to use old or deleted partitions.

You should reboot or remove the drive.

The operation has completed successfully.

Nicholass-MacBook-Pro:~ NickPoulos$