How do I prevent iTunes Iphoto Preview from opening automatically

How can I stop any automatic music and photo to be open in my computer, and i am not talking only about plugging only a iphone, but also creating a song from FCPX, inserting a card form my camera! I do not use Iphoto! if anyone knows how to delete I photo! please! let me know!

I hate automatic functions! Why Apple thinks I need automatic functions?! They do not know what I want to do!! Please help me if you know how I can control my computer?

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