Q: ITunes will not let me access old accounts

I tried to connect either of my old accounts for my iPhone 4, but iTunes will not let me in.  When I ask for password recovery no email is sent to either account, but when I try to use either email address I get an error saying that both are still registered.  THEY CANT HAVE IT BOTH WAYS!  I need to use either of these email for my current account.  How do I delete these accounts??  There is no help for iTunes online, just product support they want you to pay for!

Its stupidly hard to clear these old accounts out!  Please help.