OK, OK, OK,
Folks, thanks for your attempts to help a techno-phobe.
I clearly didn't make clear that my belief is that I have paid a lot for a computer and its operating system and I think IT -- NOT ANY OF YOU -- is not serving me well.
IT speaks to me in a human-like language/form that is pretty inferior in my perception. If you, whoever you are, understand IT, then well and good for you.
IT does not serve me to the level that I believe I paid for. And, although I am definitely not a computer-oriented person, the information communication aspect of the expensive computer and operating system could be improved significantly. I think the improvement could be put into effect with very little attention paid by the designers of the Apple operating system.
Frankly, I don't understand why this simple lever of communication has not been significantly improved #1. UNLESS there is some sort of end goal [somewhere, somehow] of making basic messages obscure, OR #2. as was suggested, computer folks aren't language folks -- to an extreme degree?
Once again, purely by my standards, this point is about language is not a very exalted standard. It is taught in about the eighth grade in an inner city school ranging down to the fifth grade in a highly rated school.
{[In the 1990s inside car lights went on and said: CHECK ENGINE. Oh great, that could mean practically anything. But I knew that I could pull into a dealer, present the problem and they would tell me (for a fee) and fix the thing (for a fee). Well, Apple tells me that I must ask around among the other Apple users and depend on the kindness of strangers.
Now that "CHECK ENGINE" message is considered primitive and no recent (10 years?) car has that system. ]}
Let me go all the way back to Illaass' kind attempt to help. I puzzled over the first question. Where does the video come from? Well, my neighbor gave it to me on an "information stick'...no, no, they don't call them that any more. Computer people get so upset if I don't use the right word. What is that **** thing? What the **** is the name...oh, I know, flash drive! Is that what he(she?) wants to know? Probably not. Hmmmm, where does it come from? The ethernet? No, I know, I'll say mp4. That seems like what he/she would mean. Does the dot come after or before the mp4? Maybe they will just think I made a typo wherever I put it.
I don't know where to find "Get Info". That is totally new to me, but I do know where a right click is. But when would I use it?
I can tell them I re-installed Quick Time Player. Then I took out the information stick and put it back in. Now two other videos play, also from my neighbor, but not the video I was concerned about. At least it sounds like I know what I am doing, that this is deliberate, not hit or miss desperate.
Fellow users, if I may, this is very much like when I am "speaking" Italian. I formulate what I think is a good question or reply. The better it is, the more likely someone else thinks I know what I am talking about. They respond in kind. Then, I am lost. Lucky for me, Italians are generally amused by my mangling their language, not contemptuous as others are when I mangle theirs. I wonder how I come across to the Chinese students who always rush me in the subways of Beijing and buses of Shanghai and Taipei, wanting to speak English? I know I get worn out sometimes. It is really a lot of effort to think differently.
Well, again, my thanks.