I know everything is bigger in TX, my daughter lives in Flower Mound, near DFW. Macs do have a learning curve since they have different needs rom PCs...such as anti-virus is a bad idea.
While the iMac is running, the software you normally use, go to the Finder, Applications, Utilities, Activity Monitor. Look at the Memory and see what it shows in the center of the window, the Memory Pressure - if it is green your loading of the memory is fine, yellow and you are getting to the point of using virtual memory (the hard drive), and red you are overloading the memory and need to reduce the applications you have open.
The cpu tab shows how heavily you are loading the professor, should not be an issue unless you are running some heavily cpu-intensive applications like video editing, graphic programs that do ray-tracing, heavy duty gaming.
The other tabs, the hard drive and networking are rarely an issue for most users.
Under the cpu tab you can also see what programs are using high cpu time, not as easy to follow as etrecheck but a start.
One of the great little books is iMac, Portable Genius from Wiley publishing, gives good overview info on using the iMac. Barnes and Noble is your friend 🙂
Ralph