Thanks Roger for your comment. Two weeks ago I did sign out in the iCloud System pref pane, that was probably the wrong thing to do since I lost all of my calendar information, all my iCloud mail and all my IMAP folders are gone. I followed the information in other support posts that said to sign out and sign back in and don't worry about telling your machine to remove everything from all those apps, it will come back. Maybe a restart or 3 would be required. I have restarted every day over the last two weeks - no luck.
What is odd is that my AOL iChat login *does* work with my new password. I had to change it in the iChat application - couldn't believe that worked sincet AOL has been sending nastygrams about having to dump my @mac.com login because they won't accept them anymore. But the text message link to my iMessage account does not work.
Is a clean install of Mavericks the only option? Thanks for any help you can provide.