I can't see 'send reset anwers question to email....'

Do you have a rescue email address?

If you forgot the answers to your Apple ID security questions - Apple Support

Well, if you have a rescue email address, follow the instructions in the link provided,

especially this part.

Reset your security questions

1. Go to My Apple ID.
2. Select Manage your Apple ID and sign in.
3. Select Password and Security.
4. Select “Send reset security info email to [rescue email address].” If you don't see a link, contact Apple Support for help.