Why I can't see the "send reset security info to email to e****@gmail.com" on my Passowrd and Security category

The reset link will only show if you have a rescue email address on your account, alternate email addresses are different and are not used for resetting security questions. You will have to contact Support in your country to get the questions reset.

Contacting Apple about account security : Contact Apple for help with Apple ID account security

If your country isn't on that page then try this form to contact Support : https://www.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html

When they've been reset you can then add a rescue email address for potential future use : Manage your Apple ID primary, rescue, alternate, and notification email addresses

Or if it's available in your country you could change to 2-step verification : Frequently asked questions about two-step verification for Apple ID

hi i have the same question .
but what to do if my country isn't even listed in the list of countries provided with in this page "https://www.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html"

What country are you in, and it's a country that has an iTunes store ? If there isn't an iTunes store then you won't be able to download any iTunes content, you have to be in a country to use its store.

i used to live in Malaysia long time ago when i made this apple ID now i came back to
iraq . with the technological advancement over the 4-6 years that passed we have now the option for online payment which means i can purchase anything i want .
the only problem is when i try to purchase something i get the "answer your secret questions" and i don't remember those . and i cant find any support for the country where i live . so ? i came across this similar question because i don't have the option to reset my info .

so ? any ideas maybe i can offer apple a picture of my passport or any kind of document so they can verify my identity and reset the questions ? for my ID or am i stuck ? with no support options ?

There isn't currently an iTunes store in Iraq, so you can't buy or download any iTunes content (you would be violating the store's terms if you try to do so) - until if/when Apple open an iTunes store there, or you move to a country that has an iTunes store (in which case you would be able to contact that country's store), there is no need to reset the info as you can't buy anything.

Manage your Apple ID primary, rescue, alternate, and notification email addresses - Apple Support

this link should help. unless you have less than two security questions if thats the case you have to call apple customer support to change them. hop this helps because i had that same problem