Hello Premptie15,
It sounds like you aer trying to reset your security questions but dont seem to be getting the email sent to your rescue email address. Take a look at this article to help you try and find it:
If you didn't receive your verification or reset email
If you are unable to find it, then I would reach out to our Account Security team for additional assistance with the info in the following article:
If you forgot the answers to your Apple ID security questions
If you couldn't send a reset email, don't have a rescue email address, or can't access email at your rescue email address, contact Apple Support. Apple may ask you to generate a temporary support PIN to verify your identity. After you reset your security questions, you might want to update your rescue email address.
Thank you for using Apple Support Communities.
All the best,
Sterling