Hi BooMonster,
New summary of attempts....
The Pandora was deleted from my iPhone & iPad weeks ago.
Today - I physically connected my iPhone to my Mac for the first time ever. I downloaded all the iPhone Apps to iTunes. I then synced my iPhone to iTunes on the Mac. I can now view the Apps on my iPhone & iPad in iTunes as you described. Pandora is not there under "My Apps", "My iPhone Apps" or "My iPad Apps". I also only see currently installed Apps in these windows. No uninstalled Apps appear at all.
I then went to System Preferences & deleted the Backups for the iPhone & iPad.
According to the instructions from the Pandora Support Person, I should now be able to download a new/fresh copy of Pandora onto my iPhone. I use my iPhone to open Apps Store and view the Pandora App. It still has the "cloud symbol" on it, indicating that this not a fresh version of the App, but is the same copy I had freezing problems with.
Note - While in iTunes, I select App Store at the the top of the screen, then there are a few choices down lower right, including "purchased". If I select that I am able to view all Apps I ever purchased, as well as Pandora w/ the cloud symbol, yet I cannot touch/edit any of the Apps (i.e., all are read-only/view-only), so I cannot delete the Pandora App from there.
Any new ideas?
Thanks,
Chris