Thanks to you both for the reply.
Plug-in delay compensation: All (other options leave too much latency)
So to clarify: I don't know to what extent Low Latency Mode "disables things" in the signal chain. What is disabled at 5ms, or 15ms? What items like Sends, Aux Tracks, etc are disabled? The verbiage is quite general in the manuals... I find that your statement "direct bus routings are often bypassed in LLM, and sendbusroutings are bypassed if there are latency inducing plugins on their destination auxes. That's how Low Latency Mode works." is more helpful...
So I have the Aux Bus for the drummers headphones, which is sent to Out 3+4, it does not have any plug-ins whatsoever... I am using it as a bus collecting the other Sends, Track Stacks, their plugins and levels... then just right out to the headphone amp.
I've been reading up on the Low Latency Mode, and Low Latency Safe mode... I hope this will solve my problem, because I was unaware of the Latency Safe mode for Sends. I'm going to try this tonight at the studio. Hopefully it will restore the sound to the additional outputs (even if some plug-ins are removed per LLM).
*The 3rd photo is not truly correct since yes, at that time I took the screenshot my audio unit was off, so there was not any available 3+4... I should post a photo when I'm connected to my FireProject Studio interface.