i remmber my passcode any soluation to retain it as now ask me to connected with Itune?

that article you was reading before you did ask a question at the bottom, therein a section that shows "Use Recovery Mode" You should really read that section. If you forgot the passcode for your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch, or your device is disabled - Apple Support

No there is no way to get it to give you another chance at this point.

Sorry, but no. Once you disable the device, you have to restore it as per the instructions in the article you linked from.

Best of luck,

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