am not the first owner of an iPhone , I got it used from a relative and tried to reset but asks the apple id him and he does not live in this country and I can not talk to him
iPhone 4S, iOS 8.4.1, no
Sound like the activation lock.
You cannot use it until the previous owner removes it from their account.
Sorry
It requires the Apple ID and password of the previous owner. If you don't have it and cannot get it, then the device is useless to you. Return it for a refund if you can.
Find My iPhone Activation Lock
In the future check first before buying second hand: How to check for Activation Lock before buying a used iPhone.
am not the first owner of an iPhone , I got it used from a relative and tried to reset but asks the apple id him and he does not live in this country and I can not talk to him
