Can't unhide the user library, tried everything I know
Suddenly I'm unable to see my user library which I usually have present and access regularly. I have highlighted the user in the sidebar and checked the box in view options but it doesn't show. The only way I can see it is Go menu>option which gives me a grey version that disappears once I change folder. I tried deleting user Finder prefs but no joy there either. Can anyone help? Thanks
Mac mini (Late 2012), OS X Mavericks (10.9.2), actually 10.9.5