Again it is not a setting but a math forumula
and you can not "set" it in Photos nor could you in iPhoto
In Preview I believe you can change the setting but that will change absolutely nothing at all about the image or how it prints or what you can do with it
And based on your comment you clearly do not know what DPI is - and apparently the people you are sending you photos to have no idea either
a 2400 pixel x 3000 pixel photo printed as an 8" x 10" print is printed at 300 DPI no matter if the EXIF setting is 1 dpi or 72 dpi or 300 dpi or 2,000,000 dpi - and a 1200 pixel x 1500 pixel image printed as an 8" x 10" print is still 150 dpi no matter what setting the EXIF field says - the setting is totally immaterial - the math gives the answer
If I point to a red car and tell you it is black it is still red no matter what I said - likewise the DPI is set by the math no matter what the EXIF says
LN