Upgrade mid-2009 Macbook Pro or replace?
Hi everyone. I apologize if this is a redundant question, but a lot of the threads I found were older so I'm not sure if that makes a difference. I have a mid-2009 MacBook Pro, that in general works fairly well. However, it is super slow, and I'm wondering the merits of trying to upgrade the RAM (and possibly switch to a solid-state drive) vs. purchasing a new laptop. As a note, if I were to get a new laptop, it likely would not be an Apple product. For what I use my computer for (email, web browsing, word processing, photo storage & editing in iPhoto), I don't know if paying the premium for a Mac is really worth it despite having Macs since I was 10 years old. In addition to this laptop, in our household we also have a desktop PC and I have two Dell laptops for work, so outside of my personal files this laptop isn't really that necessary.
My boyfriend (with whom I'd be splitting a new laptop) seems to think that upgrading a 6-year-old laptop isn't worth the effort, so we should just buy a new one. However, my parents have my "old" MacBook (2006ish) which is still going pretty strong, if slow, which makes me think that this thing could stick around for a while longer. While money isn't a huge issue, I wouldn't mind saving a bit for now and keeping this one around. Aside from the speed issue I'm still pretty happy with it.
Here's the overview of my computer:
MacBook Pro (13-inch, Mid 2009)
running OS X Yosemite (Version 10.10)
Processor 2.26 GHz Intel Core 2 Duo
Memory 2 GB 1067 MHz DDR3 --> original, but I think can go up to 8GB?
Graphics NVIDIA GeForce 9400M 256 MB
Battery performance seems ok, I mostly use this plugged-in though. I'm currently running Chrome and have some Finder windows open, and Activity Monitor is saying that I'm using 1.98GB of my 2GB memory, so I'm thinking that memory is really an issue. I saw one suggestion that mentioned replacing the optical drive with SSD instead of the hard drive...what's the optical drive? Is that a better option? Also, where is a good place to buy this stuff?
Please keep in mind that I don't really know what I'm doing. Explaining things like I'm your mother wouldn't hurt. Thanks for your help!
MacBook Pro, OS X Yosemite (10.10)