Hello jhcovert,
Try to keep calm. As long as your "Calendars", "Reminders" and "Contacts" are clean and right on the Cloud, it will just be your Mac that's confused. Hopefully it's just following instructions that you don't know are in there to store extra sets of these things. Those instructions will be in your computer somewhere, so we just need to find out where they are, and change them.
As ever, first it is essential to go online and double-check that your "Calendars", "Reminders" and "Contacts" in your online iCloud account are all present and correct!!!
Are they?? If they are, excellent. We can carry on. If they aren't, stop now and let me know.
If they're all good, I'm assuming you have other devices like maybe an iPhone and/or iPad, or more than one of each. If you do, would you mind checking some things for me in your iTunes app on your Mac for each device? Don't change anything just yet, just let me know what you find, OK? Would suggest making notes for each. So,
1. Open iTunes
2. Look for your iPhone/iPad's icon at the end of the second row in the top left corner of the window.
NB: If no devices are showing, plug each one in in turn.
3. Click on one of your devices and look under the "Settings" list going down the left hand side of the window.
4. First go to the "Summary" page at the top of the list then check these two sections:
A. In the "Backups" section:
a. Under "Automatically Back Up", is "iCloud" switched on or off?
b. In that same section, is "This computer" switched on or off?
B. Next, in the "Options" section:
a. Is "Sync with this iPad/iPhone over Wi-Fi" on or off?
5. Secondly, look back at the "Settings" list going down the left of the window and click on the "info" page at the bottom:
a. Is the check box for "Sync Contacts" switched on or off?
b. Is the check box for "Sync Calendars" switched on of off?
Remember you need to check these things for each of your devices, then let me know what they are. Hopefully the culprit is hiding there in plain sight!
And please forgive me if you're great at Macs and I'm talking to you like you're an idiot. Don't mean to insult you, just trying to be as thorough as possible in case you, or someone else who is a Mac Newbie has not had this problem before (like I have!) Let's just hope the glitch lives here because if it does, it's super-easy to fix...
Andy (o: