Q: what can i do to reset my apple id ? and please help me and my securityemail i forgot

If you can't reset the account's password yourself via http://iforgot.apple.com (you should be able to reset it by answering the account's security questions) then try contacting Support in your country to get the password (and security questions if you've also forgotten them) : Contact Apple for help with Apple ID account security

If your country isn't on that page then try this form to contact Support : https://www.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html

When they've been reset you can then update your rescue email address for potential future use : Manage your Apple ID primary, rescue, alternate, and notification email addresses

Or if it's available in your country you could change to 2-step verification : Frequently asked questions about two-step verification for Apple ID