Those to videos are for 2010 and 2011 iMacs, retina screens with laminated processes were not even on iMacs then, that was the old screen technology. I really don't know what your shop is saying but an Apple store would not be telling you this. If the laminate process was not done properly maybe yes you can get some dust under the screen, but its not that likely or as wide spread as those out of date videos you have posted. Buy the iMac get Apple care and enjoy it.
I have seen 27" iMacs in shops that are demo units that are on all day without issues, you would have to be very unlucky to get a failed laminate screen however if you did you would be covered with Applecare. Looking for problems that may or may not happen or listening to hearsay from a shop that I doubt is a an actual Apple retail store is not healthy. Just enjoy the computer and don't worry, although you do seem to be trying to convince yourself that you don't want one anyway, by the sounds of your posts. Now unless you have a technical issue with a current machine there really is nothing more to say here.