Icloud and Family sharing - can one allow different access to different items like contacts and calendar ie can I allow my wife to see everything and for our kids to see everything except notes and mail and contacts?

Good day Harry,

I understand that you want to control access to certain information among family members and want to know if Family Sharing will allow you the flexibility for this. Is that correct?

This page gives an overview of the services available through Family Sharing. You will notice that Notes, Mail, and Contacts are not shared. There is a shared family Calendar that can be available.

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