Yes, I have seen that chart. It's half of the solution, if at all.
You see, the problem is I have to use an off the shelf fibre LC-LC cable to connect to my IBM/HP fibre port. That leaves me with a " PC " centric LC end of the fibre cable in hand - wondering how to connect it to the Xserve.
Or, if I start from the Xserve side with the standard fibre cables that are popular with Xserves ( or Apple approved fibre HBA ) I'll end up with a bolted-in FSP in hand wondering how to connect it to an LC fibre port on the TapeDrive side.
According to what I have seen on line, there are FSP modules for this purpose. That allow you to do:
Tape drive FC - LC port + LC type connector ( tapedrive side ) + LC type connector - " FSP module " + Xserve fibre card.
So far , I have not found a single FSP module that is " APPLE " friendly and can do the LC connection.