where are the sleep and home buttons located

The sleep/wake button is the one also commonly known as the power button. The home button is the round one you see at the bottom of the screen area on the front of the device.

I see that now. I was looking at the OP's profile, not the forum I was in. Thanks.

the home button is the one that looks like a TV screen. If you hold it down it will ask if you want to sleep.

This link may be helpful.

http://www.macrumors.com/2015/11/01/apple-tv-4-tips-tricks-siri-remote-shortcuts /

chris, this is the Apple TV forum not iPad