Q: Why does my phone number and two other email addresses come up in my contact on others phone?

I for one am confused.  Are you seeing your contact information on your phone or someone else's phone.  You stated both.

In either case the answer is probably similar.  Your information was entered into the contact program at some point by a person. If you use iCloud the contact information was downloaded to the phone.  If you share a iCloud account with someone, the contact information could be automatically downloaded to another person's phone.

Did you send them emails from those addresses?  If so, they could read the email address and add to their contact card for you.  A lesser possibility is that the email addresses are publicly available on the internet or a mailing list.

Hi

This will happen if more than one person is using same apple ID

They are not made for sharing .

All infomation will go to all apple devices using same apple ID

Cheers

Brian

Change the Apple ID password or create your own unique Apple ID.  Those losing access to the current Apple ID will lose access to the purchases under the current Apple ID unless they are Family members under Family Sharing.  See Set up Family Sharing - Apple Support  Note Family Sharing works for most purchased content but not all content providers choose to allow Family Sharing.