My advice to others having this issue....
If the workarounds described here are not working for you....Be a squeaky wheel. I contacted the BBB in my area so it forced Cox to take notice. I also demanded and received credit for the months I had no internet service. I spent many hours and days on the phone with support chasing ridiculous solutions such as removing all devices from my network, etc. It will take me many hours to put everything back and configure properly. I also registered a complaint my state utility/corporation commission. These complaints managed to get me a direct line with a local field service manager, so i didn't have to waste time with Level 1 or Level 2 support. Because of this contact, I texted him and got the DNS server info to try so I was not down for more than a few minutes.
You DO need to attempt to resolve the issue first by following the chain of support. However you can bypass Level 1 support and get cases logged with Level 2. Demand that field service come to your house (at no charge to you) to exclude all potential hardware issues (in some cases, there are other issues going on that could optimize service but have nothing to do with the IPv6 upgrade issue. i.e., I used to have Cox phone service, the box was still connected and not properly bypassed so field service completely removed it from my cable network).
I have been a loyal Cox customer for over 13 years and this is no way to treat customers. I rely heavily on the internet for nanny cams and home security and I pay for that service. I expect to get what I pay for. Cox dropped the ball on this and didn't seem to care about its customers using AE and pointed the finger at Apple and left us up the creek without a paddle.
So if you are not getting the help you need, make a fuss and get noticed.