Q: after installing ios 9 i no longer have bluetooth working ..my wifi is greyed out and my clock stops on screenlock?

So, what troubleshooting have you performed? The user troubleshooting steps include restart, reset, restore from backup, restore to factory. You test after each step until the problem is rectified. If it isn't after all steps, then make an appointment at the Genius Bar of the nearest Apple Store to have the hardware examined. This support document contains the only information on dealing with Wi-Fi being grayed out.  If Wi-Fi is grayed out or dim on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support