This really ****** me off. Ive wasted so much time on this on multiple days now. I just wanted to give my daughter and iPad not spend my days in Apple tech support.
I created an Apple ID for her but never got a verification email which I never noticed because nothing required it.
I used that Apple ID to sign into email, iCloud, iTunes, and Messages. All of those services work (and all require their own sign in? Geez Apple.)
However Facetime complains with this "must verify" dialog. Click "Verify" and it sends me to her account page in the browser.
THE ACCOUNT SCREEN DOES NOT HAVE A VERIFY BUTTON. You can edit email, change security questions, but no verify.
Ive seen screenshots of an old version of the page that has a button and their own help (If you didn't receive your verification or reset email - Apple Support )refers to a verify button that will resend the email but I am unable to find one anymore.
I was able to create a new email address, add it to the account, and immediately get the verification email but still cannot verify the Apple ID i care about.
As someone suggested, just use Cancel on this dialog. After a delay, Facetime works BUT the next time you try to use the app, it will ask again to verify and the whole thing will repeat again. Forget Johnny Ive, this is software design by Franz Kafka.