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What do you mean 'dis-appear to me' ? Do you mean that you don't have a verified rescue email address on your account so aren't getting the reset link - if you do you will have to contact Support in the country where you are (and which is therefore the country on your account) to get the questions reset : Contact Apple for help with Apple ID account security

If your country isn't on that page then try this form to contact Support : https://www.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html

When they've been reset, and if you don't already have a rescue email address, you can then add one for potential future use : About your Apple ID email addresses - Apple Support