Thanks LACAllen, for your note above. And your concern. Sorry that with my rant at the time I wrote that reply, that I lacked the clarity of stating my issues clearly.
While I realize there is no "requirement" to enable Photos, it seems to me that that is the direction that I find is one of a very few options.
Regarding the suggestion to continue to use Adobe Bridge - I wish I could! I find that is NO LONGER an option at all. Not on my 1 year old MacBook Pro with the latest version of the OS. I've used that method for years. I have a monthly subscription to multiple Adobe CC products. But Bridge no longer recognizes my iDevices. No iPhone (6 iOS updated to latest version). No iPad. It doesn't even recognize one of my Olympus cameras anymore. I've uninstalled Bridge CC and reinstalled it. The version of Bridge 6.2.0.179 offers two options by which I can download images to my MacBook Pro "Get photos from camera" or "Import from device". The first option is how I use to do this for years with no glitches. The second option opens "Image Capture" - which is very basic and offers no options as Bridge's import function did with subfolder creations and renaming the batch import, and appending my preferred metadata template.
The main problem with the Image Capture option is now any edits I've made to my photos taken with my iPhone and edited in apps in the iPhone or taken with the iPhone's Hipstamatic app and it's filters - all get imported as original photos with many edits stripped from the photos and imported as AAE files. AAE files are useless by themselves, best I can tell. What the issue is for me - is two fold - Bridge no longer recognizes any of my iDevices. And secondly, any imported pictures (via Image Capture) come across as original photos stripped of their edits.
The option to use Air Drop and send them to my computer is looking like my only sure fire way of getting the photo with its edit intact. After that import I can manually create subfolders in keeping with my system and append the metadata after the fact.
I've avoided Lightroom like the plague for years because for me Bridge was the easiest and most logical solution to how I wanted to catalogue and keep my photos. And Camera Raw has provided virtually the same post processing editing options that Lightroom came to develop. So, my preference would be to continue to avoid Lightroom if at all possible. But thank you, LACAllen, for suggesting that as a possibility. I would have to see if it, unlike Bridge, would even recognize my iPhone.
And regarding the conspiracy issue - in my 30 years of using Apple computers/devices this is my first time to make such a suggestion! And again, I'd rather not have to use Apple's Photos software on my computer as the default way of importing photos. I've been very spoiled by Photoshop's Bridge for years, I'm afraid.
Thank you again for your reply. Always helpful to glimpse any bit of info from others that might work.