Can apple tell what Ipad or telephone the charges I have on my bank account came from I am pretty sure my best friend woudnt domthis but there are so many charges I never made

We can't potentially refund you, you already know that you are only talking to fellow users on here, not iTunes Support nor Apple.

You've checked your account's purchase history (and family members if you are a family organiser in family sharing) : See your purchase history in the iTunes Store on a Mac or PC - Apple Support ?

If they show there but you didn't do them, and nobody else has access to your account and/or devices/computers and did them, then change the account's password (What to do after you change your Apple ID email address or password - Apple Support) and contact iTunes Support : http://reportaproblem.apple.com or https://www.apple.com/emea/support/itunes/contact.html

If they don't show on your account(s) contact your card issuer

You should probably direct this question to iTunes or Apple Store customer support. But from what I have seen from my Apple account, the charges don't indicate what actual device made the purchase - just the Apple ID (and therefore the credit card linked to that Apple ID) that was used.

Change your password immediately.

And do not engage in temporary switches of credit cards. That is really asking for trouble. Once somebody has the numbers, they don't even need the physical card to switch it back. If you want to give someone an iTunes-related gift, purchase a gift card and let them redeem it.

I have had three charges to my bank account this week for Itunes. I am furious. What is going on?

Not sure how you would expect fellow users on these user-to-user forums to know what has been happening on your account(s). Have you tried looking at your purchase history : See your purchase history in the iTunes Store on a Mac or PC - Apple Support ? And if a family organiser in family sharing looked at the family members accounts as well ?

I Have charges that was made in December & I did not use my iPad in December please reimburse my account asap I hat this. Makes me want to never use it.

MAybelle Barnes